Friday, 23 July 2010

Post Seven: Girl with the Tray


The quirky merry-go-round music that you hear from the classic Ice Cream Van is playing behind my head, out in the street near to our house. I thought, ‘I must have one at the wedding.’ It would be brilliant; a hot day, an Indian curry, nice music and fun things to do in the grounds around the venue surely equals an Ice Cream. Hmmm…so how do I do this in budget? With no shoes and only socks to protect my feet from the concrete road, I run out into the street to ask our local ice cream van how much he charges. I thought why not bite the bullet and ask him straight up. He said with travel expenses and the cost of ice creams we were looking at minimum £200.

With this thought in tow I headed back to the comfort of carpet and sat and thought about other interesting ideas that could work instead of spending £200. Terry and my mum were both trying to convince me to buy a load of ice cream tubs and put them in the freezer at the Hall, letting everyone help themselves, however I found this so unexciting and uninspiring that I just tuned out from listening.

Last night, we drove down to Portsmouth, after cycling 8 miles to work and back and feeling very tired, we arrived at Hayden’s, Terry’s cousin’s house, to see Hayden, Terry’s mum Sue, Terry’s Nan and Hayden’s girlfriend Lyndsay. I was talking through the idea that I was dying to have an ice cream van to add fun and personality to the day and Terry’s mum sparked a great alternative. Meeting both Terry and my own opinion in the middle, she thought up the old classic cinema addition, the ‘girl with the tray’. 


It’s a great way to interact with the guests, give the groomsmen a good job and have something yet again creative and fits perfectly with my old English theme. So New Forest Ice Creams and a classic ‘man with the tray’ will add a great little free and refreshing treat to the afternoon. I was going to ask the groomsmen to do it with their tops off (one for the ladies) but was quickly laughed out of the room.

Post Six: Tea anyone!

8.30 on a Sunday is not often a time I see. But for the wedding, we got up and headed to the car boot sale in Worthing. For my wedding favors all the women will be getting a tea cup and saucer. Any that I can find with a gold rim and a delicate English flower or with a tad of charm I have brought. None over 1 pound each and each one different, original and lovely. I have decided to give these along with a ribbon tied tag with the date of our wedding. Something different I thought and something that will add an additional creative spark.



Whilst at the car boot sale, I came across a cake stand. A 3 tied metal cake stand that a bride had used only once before for her wedding. I brought it for 4 pounds and was so happy with my bargain. On the way home I popped into the local craft shop and picked up some ribbon and flowers and decorated the stand. It looks great!! I have ordered some books from the library on baking cakes and am going to attempt to make my own! It can't be that hard!

Post 5: Setting up the site and sending out the invites

I have been busy searching for Bridesmaid dresses, flower girl dressesa and have finally found my wedding dress. The dress is perfect; simple, sexy and sophisticated. It's on another level to your usual princess wedding dress and add a touch of elegance to the day. I cannot reveal how much the dress was until after the wedding as you will be shocked at the price, lets just say it fits very well into the budget.

So now I have the dress arranged, I have found this wonderful free site to set up all of the wedding plans and send out all of the information required for the guests. The site is perfect, it has everything you need to arrange the big day.


Just have to get around to making the invites now and am thinking of using an apple mac to set them up. You can do this for around 5p a invite so works out really well on the price front. Or using a website www.fromoldbooks.co.uk to find images from story books when we were young to use as decoration to some amazing text I found.

The text goes something like this:


Together with our families, We,

Terry                 Jennifer
                                                                                          John        &        Claire
                                                                                        Constant               Edmonds

Request the honour of your company at the celebration of our marriage

Saturday the Twenty-Fifth of June, Two Thousand and Eleven
at Twelve Noon

Please visit our website, xxxxxxxx@xxxxx
to find out the ceremony and reception details, RSVP, where to stay and our gift list.

Please RSVP on our website using ********  as the password


I thought this was a very classic text and scroll and really goes along with my old English theme. I am currently looking into growing my own flowers now too, just have to choose which ones...Im thinking asters or maybe even roses. I began with Lillies but I think they are a little over used now.